Sunday, December 20, 2009

Christmas Letter 2009


If you look closely at this card, you may see the frostbite forming on our fingers and noses. We had our holiday pics taken on the coldest day possible in December. I know I've turned into a pansy, but it was only in the 30's that day. Since then temps have gone back up to the 50's and low 60's. That's more like it.

This year has been quite an exciting one. We started out in January trying to get approved to adopt again as soon as possible. After G's finalization and sealing in May of last year, I knew that we needed to be ready to adopt again, because there was another child coming to our family. I have to admit, I've always thought it was a little hokey when I'd hear of people that said they felt there was someone missing in their family, but that's exactly what it feels like. So, we were ready at the start of the year, but God had other plans. It seemed like every road block possible came up while we were trying to get approved. Finally in mid March, our case worker called us and let us know everything was ready and our profile would be available online for expectant parents looking for an adoptive family. She asked us first to make a paper copy of our profile that she could show to someone the next day that was coming into the office. So I scrambled to put pictures together and make them look nice and I took it over to their office. And then we waited, but not very long.

On April first our caseworker gave me the best early birthday gift I've ever gotten. She brought a birth announcement and letter from our daughter's birthmother. That night put us into motion for the next couple of months. We were so lucky to be able to get to know her and her family before the birth. They have been such a blessing in our lives.

Our daughter was born in June and she turned poor G's world upside down. He hardly knew what to think of her, but at least he was so busy doing and going and growing, that he didn't have time to be jealous of the new usurper in momma's lap. He's growing so fast. The beginning of the year, he was just newly walking and now he just runs everywhere. He has such a sweet disposition, he loves to be with friends and he now loves his little sister. When she is sad, he shares his woobie (blanket) with her and he helps her play her musical toys to keep her entertained. I love to watch him play with other children his age because he loves to share although I'm not sure where he got that from :)

Jared and I are so thankful this year to be surrounded by family and friends who we love. We hope that you feel the love of the Savior in your life as we have this year.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Catch Up

So raising 2 children is so much busier than I thought it would be... Sorry, I should be better about posting. I spend way too much time being exhausted lately.
Baby M is still perfect. She sleeps through the night like an angel. She is now going through some stranger/separation anxiety thing, though, so she makes it perfectly clear that she prefers to be held- all. the. time. I do love holding her, so it works out, but sometimes the nutrition level at dinnertime suffers. It is way easier to make ramen with one hand than it is to make pretty much anything else.
Fortunately, G still appears healthy enough that our pediatrician forgets that he has a heart condition every time he sees him (Hmm, has he always had this murmur?) And the cardiologist says everything still looks good and she'll see him in 6 months again. Which brings us to the first event I didn't blog about- G had his birthday! 2 years old now and so big it's crazy!


Such a character! Here he is savoring his cake

He is just so excited about all the presents that he doesn't know what to do with himself.

He is really making the effort to talk now, although most of what he says is akin to navajo code talking. He is VERY interested in the toilet- so much so that he flushed about $30 worth of makeup down the drain, the day I got it in the mail. Mommy had a come apart, Daddy held it together once he realized the plumbing was okay. It could be worse, right? We could be replacing plumbing, carpet, and so on. I'll say it again- I'm not looking forward to potty training.
On a more positive note, he has also rediscovered books. I found a book called "Waddle" which has animals that move when you turn the pages. It's really cool. He loves it and always asks for it first thing in the morning. His favorite toys are now books and we spend a lot of time each day picking up and putting away all his books.

Malihah has just turned 6 months!


She can turn over from her front to her back and from the back to her tummy, too. She is almost sitting up on her own. She is eating baby oatmeal every morning and now starting every night for dinner, too. She also loves to talk, saying dada dada dada every chance she has an audience. We are getting ready for our court date next week for finalization and are looking forward to early January when we will seal her to our family in the temple and have her baby blessing.

Check back soon, I hope to have the Christmas family update posted in the next day or 2.